3 New Leadership Skills I Learned from Barack Obama

I remember it like yesterday…

January 20, 2009.

As I watched the newly elected Barack Obama be sworn in as our 44th president and watched him give his inaugural speech, I was struck with a fantastic leadership skills epiphany.

I realized why I’m not more successful:

Too many people like me.

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Leadership Skill #1 – Take a Bold Stance, and Don’t Waiver

Candidly, I don’t like it when, let’s just say, one out of a hundred people listen to my keynote talk, subscribe to my daily mentoring, or read my tweets, and don’t like me or what I said.

But that’s my problem:

Not enough people disagree with me.
Not enough people dislike me.

Barack Obama achieved arguably the highest position any human can achieve, President of the United States of America, making him (arguably of course) the most powerful human being on the planet.

And yet if you’ll recall, about half the people in his own country disagreed with him and disliked him—some passionately.

Here is our lack of popularity comparison:
Obama=50%
Me=less than 1%
Obama=Elected President of the U.S.A.
Me=Not.

The leadership skills epiphany is this:

The higher you climb on the ladder of success, the more people will dislike you.
Climb high enough and people might dislike you passionately, maybe even hate you.

Let that be okay…

Consequentially, if you are not as high on the ladder as you want to be, it might be because you are too worried about people disliking you.

This is keeping you from really challenging ideas, stirring up the status quos and leading a life by your own definition, regardless of the cultural or societal memes or expectations that surround you.

My new goal after having this epiphany:
Piss more people off!

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Leadership Skill #2 – Cast a Clear Vision

Here’s a scary thought.

  • Sometimes the best company DOES NOT win
  • Sometimes the best product doesn’t win
  • Sometimes the best candidate in an election doesn’t win

In every election, it seems any given candidate will have the favor of half the country and disapproval of the other half, just by stating his/her party affiliation.

What pushes the candidate over that 50% threshold and gets him/her elected?

The answer might surprise you.

It usually doesn’t come down to qualifications, experience, or even their stance on social issues, the economy or the military. 

… and no one cares about their 150 step plan for America either!

It usually comes down to one thing.

Marketing.

Who can describe their vision for America the fastest and easiest?

Barack Obama Hope Image Embodies Leadership SkillsObama’s Vision:

How did Obama beat out Hillary Clinton for the Democratic nomination, even though by many standards, Clinton was more qualified?

Hope.

Obama offered a vision of hope.  (I’ll show you Clinton’s vision in a minute and you’ll see why she lost.)

That’s not a political statement saying I favored one over the other.

Obama just chose a better marketing team.  And like it or not, that’s an important leadership skill – hiring A players.

“Hope” Image Credit: Shepard Fairey

Visionary Leadership – An Essential Skill in Business

Vision is also essential for your business messaging.

Don’t focus on yourself or your products in your marketing collateral.  Focus on where your customer wants to go.  What’s a successful outcome of using your product or service?

Watch how Nike does it.  This isn’t a commercial about shoes.  It’s a message of vision about what those shoes can do for you.

If you are a business leader looking to scale a high-impact company, messaging is key.  Join my Business Masterclass, the High Performance Forum, and become a world-class marketing company.  Inquire about an invitation here.

How about the current President?

It happened again…

How did Donald Trump beat Hillary Clinton?

In the business masterclasses I host here in San Diego, I ask the audience to recite what Hillary Clinton’s campaign message was during her most recent bid for the presidency.

Their answer…

Crickets.

Then I ask, “What was Donald Trump’s?”

Everyone answers in unison, “MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN!”

Donald_Trump_Make_America_Great_Again

Image Credit: Way Back Time Machine

Whether you like it or not (became true or not), it was a message of “Hope.”

The promise that tomorrow would be better than today.

Now let’s take a look at Hillary’s campaign messages.

In 2008, her campaign slogan was “Ready for change, ready to lead.”

To me, “change” is a verb, it’s not a destination.  And people are uncomfortable with “change.”  They don’t want change, they want “better.”

Her website’s message was “we have a lot of money!”

Hillary_Clinton_Website

Image credit: Way Back Time Machine for Feb 13, 2008

In 2016, Clinton didn’t bring back the “Ready for change, ready to lead,” message.

Instead, she used:

  • “Hillary for America” – where is the vision or message of hope here?
  • “I’m with Her” – what does that even mean?
  • “Forward together” – this is best of the three but still boring and ambiguous

And again, her website messaging wasn’t any better.  Courtesy of the Way Back Time Machine, here’s a snapshot of Hillary’s website early 2016.

Hillary_Clinton_Leadership_Skills

“She’s with us?”

What successful outcome comes to your mind if you vote for Hillary?  How will your life be better?  What’s her “I’m going to put a man on the moon” vision for YOU or for America?

Her other messaging front and center on her website during 2016 weren’t much better:

  • “This starts with you” – how does this make my life better?
  • “Now let’s go win” – sounds like a lot of work.

Please note this isn’t a criticism of Hillary, just her marketing messaging.  When a significantly more qualified candidate loses (twice), I think it’s important to look at the messaging and find out why.

While they may not have been as popular or qualified, I personally think Obama and Trump simply had better leadership and marketing teams, and that’s what won them the presidency.

Effective Leadership Skill #3 – Courage to Do the Unpopular

I have observed that one of the most overlooked but important qualities of great leadership is one’s courage and willingness to do what is unpopular.

Disclaimer: I’m not saying I approve or don’t approve of any of the following, but we can all agree some of Obama’s ideas were met with disagreement and criticism by millions of people, such as:

  • Obamacare
  • Removing troops from Afghanistan
  • Bailing out the auto industry
  • Repealing the military’s “Don’t ask, don’t tell” policy

Being disliked is one thing, but leading a team (or in this case country) who seems to oppose your every decision is another.  Some might call it “bad leadership”, but nevertheless, Obama’s unwavering stance on his positions despite their unpopularity still shows the qualities of a leader.  And sometimes YOU will need that as a leader.

Leadership Skills Example:
President Lincoln, one of the greatest leaders in history, faced vehement opposition to a particular stance he took and may have been the most unpopular person ever to serve in his position.

Watch the video to find out just how unpopular Abe was:

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Where would we be today if Abe had only done what was popular?

This willingness to go against the majority, to do what’s right and make the tough calls is not only an important leadership trait for a president, but also for a CEO, entrepreneur, team leader, community or neighborhood leader, or the leader of a family.

Leadership Quote by Abraham Lincoln

You don’t have to like all leaders.

You may disagree with them.

But we should learn from them.  I try to use the leadership skills I learned from President Obama daily.

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